Fingering might be seen by some as a teenage sex act that has no place in adult sex lives, but they would be so very wrong. When done right, fingering is The Best. It's actually also really important for female pleasure and orgasm. And that's where fingering comes in. Anyone who has sex with people with vulvas needs to know how to do it well.
Fingering tips for when you want to finger someone *really* well
Let's face it, fingering deserves attention way more than what it is given — the act, when done right can give people with vaginas immense pleasure. Fingering is the part of foreplay that includes rubbing the vagina to stimulate it sexually. Although, it is considered a part of foreplay, did you know women can actually orgasm, if fingered right? It is a great way to arouse your female partner and a fantastic sex act to explore. Women can try it on their own or ask their partners to do it.
Whether it's part of foreplay or the main event, fingering can be super pleasurable for people with vulvas—as long as it's done well. Bad digital stimulation isn't just a huge turn-off; it can also be incredibly painful! That's why we spoke with some sex-positive women about how men can up their fingering game. Now, there's one big caveat here, which is that every woman and every vulva is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all method when it comes to fingering.